Favorite quote of all times:
"If you bungle raising your kids, anything else you do in life well doesn't really matter"
Now, that's a cool mom.
You may quote me on this one
"If you have drama in your life as a parent, you are stealing from your teenagers, their life is full of it and as a parent you can not be distracted"
Not as cool as Jackie O, but I know this to be true as well.